TODAY'S TOUCHSTONE

Published: Sat, 09/02/17

TODAY'S TOUCHSTONE



"Nobody can predict the future. You just have to give your all to the relationship you're in and do your best to take care of your partner, communicate and give them every last drop of love you have. I think one of the most important things in a relationship is caring for your significant other through good times and bad." 

             ~ Nick Cannon

We've all had them: good times and bad.

I'd rather say easy vs. challenging because the so called "bad" times often contain good and the so called good can lead toward trouble.

I'm reminded now of a Chinese fable that expresses this. Do you know the story "Good Fortune, Bad Fortune"?

Long ago there was a farmer who lost his favorite horse. Besides helping the farmer with his work, the mare was like a friend. One day she wandered away. The old man searched but couldn’t find her. His neighbors went out to look too. When the horse could not be found, the neighbors tried to console the farmer. “We are sorry that this bad fortune happened to you,” they said.


            The farmer smiled and replied, “Thank you for helping me search for my horse and for your condolences, but we shall see. Bad fortune? Who knows? Things are always changing.”


            A few weeks later the horse returned. With her walked a strong stallion. 


            “Good fortune!” said the neighbors.


            “The farmer again said, “We shall see.”


            In time the mare gave birth to a foal.  “Good fortune!” said the neighbors.


            The farmer simply smiled.


            A few months later, the man’s son broke his leg while trying to ride the untamed young horse.


            “Oh, bad fortune!” said the neighbors.


            “We shall see,” said the farmer.


            The son’s leg soon began to heal. 


            “Good fortune,” said the neighbors. 


            The farmer smiled. 


            In time the son walked again but with a slight limp.

            “Oh, too bad.  Bad fortune,” said the neighbors.


            “We shall see,” said the farmer, smiling, of course. 


            A year later a terrible war began. Most young men were called to serve. Many never returned. Because the farmer’s son walked with a limp, he was considered unfit to be a soldier.  He stayed on the farm and survived to live a long life.    


Let's aim to trust in what is unfolding and care for one another through all times. 


With love 

Charlene

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THE ELEVENTH GIFT IS LOVE:
It will grow each time you give it away.                  
                   
from The Twelve Gifts of Birth

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Charlene Costanzo is the author of  The Twelve Gifts series of books:
The Twelve Gifts of Birth
The Twelve Gifts for Healing
The Twelve Gifts in Marriage
The Thirteenth Gift 
Touchstones: Stories for Living The Twelve Gifts 

September 2, 2017

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