TODAY'S TOUCHSTONE

Published: Tue, 06/13/17

TODAY'S TOUCHSTONE

"Empathy is about standing in someone else's shoes, feeling with his or her heart, seeing with his or her eyes. Not only is empathy hard to outsource and automate, but it makes the world a better place."

                      ~ Daniel H. Pink

Once upon a time in a small village there was a practice like no other in the world.  

Every man, woman and child of a certain age, when putting on his or her shoes (all who had shoes, most did because it was in a cold climate) would vow to notice the shoes of at least one other person that day. It may be a family member, a neighbor, or someone passing through. It could be anyone. 

The point was not to look at the style, the size, the condition, or the cleanliness of the shoes. Certainly it was not to judge the shoes or the person.

The practice involved imagining yourself in those shoes for that day, being that person. What might you be feeling? Facing?

Everyone learned the practice early in life. It was explained to them when they were able to put on their own shoes for the first time. 

Yes, some days it was done in a routine way, with little awareness. But most days it was done with sincere care. And because it was done day after day, year after year, the extraordinary kindness and compassion that developed there was also like no other in the world.

Can you imagine such a practice?

Care to try it today?

For peace,

Charlene

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COMPASSION:  May you be gentle with yourself and others. May you forgive those who hurt you and yourself when you make mistakes.                  
                                              (from The Twelve Gifts of Birth)

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Charlene Costanzo is the author of  The Twelve Gifts series of books:
The Twelve Gifts of Birth
The Twelve Gifts for Healing
The Twelve Gifts in Marriage
The Thirteenth Gift 
Touchstones: Stories for Living The Twelve Gifts 

June 13, 2017

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