"One day I looked at something in myself that I had been avoiding because it was too painful. Yet once I did, I had an unexpected surprise. Rather than self-hatred, I was flooded with compassion for myself." 

                ~ Marianne Williamson

I think most, if not all, of us have "unfinished business" in our lives - things within ourselves and things that we experienced that we would rather not look at, much less share with others.

But with courage and compassion we can hold, explore and come to terms with such things. Healing, understanding, insight, wisdom, and a sense of freedom along with greater self-love and compassion are some of the gifts that await us in the resolutions of our issues.

Let's be brave and take steps toward the clearing that awaits us. Imagine that clearing as a beautiful field just up ahead in our journey.

With courage and compassion,
Charlene

PS - Consider using professional and spiritual counseling to support you in this.